Is Home-Schooling the Right Choice for Your Family?

Military children face many educational struggles due to frequent moves, ...

Military children face many educational struggles due to frequent moves, servicemember deployments, and the variety of quality education options in their new locations. For many, home schooling provides an opportunity to close this learning gap.

Are you considering home-schooling your child this year? Here are 5 steps you need to take to make the transition from public/private school to home school a smooth one.

Is Home-Schooling Right for YOUR Child?

On the surface, home schooling may seem like a logical solution to complex educational issues faced by our military children. However, you need to consider the following before taking the leap:

Step 1: Research…Your Child

Will home-schooling work for YOUR child? How does your child learn best? Do they retain information better visually or by listening to someone explain the subject matter to them? Do they learn best by doing? Do they need to have a quiet learning environment? Can they thrive in the midst of a chaotic house?

Special education advocate and 2019 AFI Navy Spouse of the Year Michelle Norman believes that the recent shift to homeschooling during the COVID-19 pandemic has helped her get to know how her children learn best. “Parents, you’re now seeing your child’s strengths. You’re now seeing your child’s weaknesses,” Norman said during a Blue Star Family Town Hall. “What has worked and what hasn’t worked at home?” For many, COVID-19 has allowed them to see what they (and their children) are capable of to better inform their decision to home-school.

Step 2: Time Management

Do you have time to dedicate to teaching your child (or children)?

Each student will potentially have different learning objectives and styles of learning that work best for them. If you work from home, taking on homeschooling could prove challenging. While homeschooling may be a smart choice during a non-deployable tour, it may be more challenging for a solo-parent during a long deployment. If you are a working military spouse you will need to determine how much time you can devote and factor that in when deciding upon a curriculum.

If you are a working parent do you have a flexible schedule? Do you have the ability to work remotely? If time is not a factor then you can move on to the next, most complicated step.

Step 3: Research State Home-School Laws

The Education Act of 1996 requires children five to 16 to receive a full-time education. However, it does not require children to attend public school, opening the door for home-schooling families. Because the public education system is funded by local and state governments, laws that govern home schooling vary by location. It is important for you to do your research to see if your plans align with state requirements.

School Liaison Officers

School Liaison Officers are a great resource and can be an asset in making your decision to home-school.

Legal Topics to Consider

Home-School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA), a home-school advocacy organization, has created an easy to Home-School Laws by State Tool. In reviewing this tool, you can discover how many different home-schooling options there are. Options include traditional home school, religious/private school, private school satellite program, or a private tutor.

You will also learn if you need to officially notify your school district of your intent to home-school. One reason for this is schools receive state funding for each enrolled student and military students bring in federal funding called “impact aid.” Because this funding will not go to your local school, in some states, like California, you are eligible to receive support and/or funding that you can use towards purchasing your home-school curriculum.

Some states require parents meet “teacher qualifications.” These requirements are open-ended in states like California, but can be as high as college credits to home-school in Washington. However, most require a GED or high school diploma.

Other state requirements to consider:

  • State-Mandated Subjects – You cannot always teach exactly what you’d like – some states have specific curriculum requirements
  • Required Assessments – Some states allow your child can take standardized tests or you can submit written assessments
  • Immunization Requirements – Although your child is not attending public school some states, like Virginia, require immunizations in order to home-school

If you are stationed OCONUS you are eligible to home-school as DoDEA schools do not have mandatory attendance policies.

Step 4: Choose a Curriculum

There is an abundance of options out there. You will need to consider the following:

Worried that your curriculum will leave your child without a connection to his/her peers? That is where auxiliary and extracurricular activities come in! Many local home-schooling communities and co-ops organize activities for children.

And if you live near a DoDEA school your child is eligible to utilize these services. There are requirements you will need to consider to access them, but they are at your disposal. DoDEA has a helpful DoDEA home school FAQ page that gives more detail.

Step 5: Set a Home-Schooling Budget

Not all states provide resources to help defray home-school costs so budgeting is vital. There are many free or inexpensive curriculum options. However, there are other expenses to consider, such as textbooks, school supplies, and membership fees should you choose to participate in a home-schooling co-op. HSLDA estimates costs can range from $50 per student, taking advantage of free resources (like the MWR digital library) and up to $500 per student to cover extras like private tutors.

Step 6: Get Connected to a Home-Schooling Community

There are Facebook groups for military home-schoolers and local groups. Military Homeschoolers has over 4,000 members and is a good place to start. Although these communities are not officially endorsed by any government agency, the communal knowledge and potential for helpful advice is unsurpassed and should not be discounted.

Military OneSource recommends reaching out to your local installation to obtain home-schooling resources. Military OneSource also provides education consultants if you have any additional questions that cannot be answered by your local community. You can call 800-342-9647 to schedule an appointment and OCONUS/international families can find contact info here.

Lastly, choosing to homeschool does not forfeit your right to a public education. And if you end up changing your mind and want to reenroll in public school you can!


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